I got the starter kefir grain kit from Amazon, like 20 years ago, so the vendor is no longer around. In my case it’s a little plastic gizmo where you put the grain in (the grain came in two paper satchets - I’m still on the first one). My gizmo looks like one of those UFO saucer circular thingies about 1.5 inch in diameter with holes. You pour your medium into a large cup - mine is about 4 cups size - plop the gizmo with the grains inside into your medium, cover with a saucer plate and depending on external temps wait 24-48 hours. The longer you wait, the more sour the kefir will turn out. Also caveat, it can’t be too hot or cold where the cup sits - roughly not below 65 or above 80. When done, drink, or if not, put in the refrigerator, it’ll last a few days. Once you’ve taken the kefir, you rinse the gizmo under running water to clean the grains, and put them into a new batch, or into a small cup with some leftover kefir and refrigerate.
You can use any medium, really, I use regular store bought nonfat milk from TJ’s, never tried anything else. I occasionally muse about using, say, goat milk, but it’s never fat free, and I try to keep my SFA consumption at the lowest possible level.
You can drink the kefir straight or do a shake with a spoonful of peanut butter (I use TJ’s 100% peanut, unsalted, unblanched), a banana etc and a handheld electric blender.
It’s really extremely simple. But sure, you can complicate it as with anything to do with stuff people like to fiddle with - coffee, tea, wine, bread, mushrooms etc. I’m sure there are whole boards dedicated to kefir making if you want to go down that rabbit hole, just google. But unlike many lucky folks, my life is definitely finite, bad break, so I just do the minimum for health benefits (though it is delicious!).