Death by Health Optimization (Michael Easter)

What do people think of this substack article? I do know of divorces that have been caused by one spouse’s obsession with exercise (Triathalons) to the exclusion of family activities.

I was chatting with the health journalist Jen Murphy the other day. She spent two decades writing the Wall Street Journal’s What’s Your Workout? column, which covered the exercise habits of high-profile people. Think: presidents, CEOs, and founders of major companies.

Some of these busy people trained hours a day for triathlons and other sports. They skipped meals with friends because the menu didn’t fit their nutrition requirements. They avoided social gatherings that might go too late and impact their sleep.

Jen told me there was often a fascinating tension to those pieces. “I regularly had spouses—or ex spouses—email me to say they wished their partner put as much energy into their relationship and family as they did into their workouts,” she said.

Health practices, pursued beyond a certain point, stop making your life better.

Your body fat percentage, VO2 max, and biomarkers may look perfect on paper. But the damage shows up between your ears. Anxiety rises, relationships suffer, life becomes robotic.

So, a question: How much is enough?

Health practices exist on an inverted U-shaped curve. Too few and physical health suffers. Too many, and life does.

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Common sense? If you are putting in more time to optimize health than getting back time of better health it makes little sense. Of course depends on what you enjoy - life is for living, so QOL matters most. If you love, say, exercise so much you don’t care about less time gained back than put in, bully for you. Relationships are just part of the package - what are your priorities, and have you arranged them correctly?

One issue is choice of partner. It is usually helpful to be on the same page regarding your health priorities. If you do something extreme/unusual (say, CR), you better have your partner on board, or it’ll all go south. If you give up normal life to go live on a mountain and focus 100% on whatever - health, spirituality, meditation whatnot, it’ll have consequences. People have joined monasteries, retreats, special communities etc. since forever. Nothing new. Common sense.